Extra Safe Space is a place for things you’ve never told anyone before. These will always be kept completely anonymous. To tell your secret, fill out this form (it doesn’t ask for or record any identifying info). That is the only criterion. Or read other people’s here as they come in.
An old work colleague and I had a major falling out a few years ago and they told me they would ruin me in business and tell everyone not to work with me. It has hurt me a couple of times with potential jobs. I just found out that this person has only months left to live presumably based on their illness and I am relieved that I won't have to deal with that badmouthing anymore.
I respect it.