Extra Safe Space #57: He Can't Make Me Come
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Sex with my new guy is not great so I pretend I have orgasms to end it faster.
I couldn’t. I’ve never faked an orgasm - why would I allow someone to believe they’ve satisfied me when they haven’t?
I totally get it if you need to do so for safety reasons - but otherwise, it seems horrible to date someone you can’t be honest about sexual pleasure with. I’d rather just masturbate