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Thanks, Ben! I love that astrology thing you sent. And you and I are both kind of late adopters that way, because I'm still scared to take the tattoo plunge myself. I have that about getting married too - as you know. Like maybe maybe maybe I'll consider it when I'm 70 or 80???

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Happy birthday, Jane! While I'd likely advise you to get tattooed in a more professional environment, I do know how to tattoo. Very, very, very poorly, mind you, but I do know how...

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Tattoo party for Jane! I'm there.

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Happiest happy birthday Janey!! You are a light. Thank you for all your force and strength and vulnerability. Thank you for Sassy, Jane, xoJane and AJPT. And thank you for Charlotte! And letting me witness you parent her. I’m forever a fuller version of myself having you in my life. xo Corynne

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Happy birthday, Jane! Today is my birthday also! I've always wanted an 11:11 tattoo but I just haven't done it yet.

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Happiest birthday to you, birthday twin! I am scared to get this tattoo myself – not the pain, just the level of commitment. But I'm thrilled for you if you ever do it - or don't. Happy day!!

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Happy Birthday to you, Jane! Yay!

I also have zero tattoos.

I came close once, when I had a beautiful mandala hennaed on my feet (at a music festival outside of Boulder, CO. which is so on brand for CO); one-half of the design on each foot, so when I put my feet together it made a whole design - but I was informed that I would die from the pain, because of the thin skin/many bones situation in the feet, so I chickened out.

That is also a classic Taurus move - go big or go home. It couldn't be a tasteful, small mandala somewhere discreet, it had to be a whole statement. OY.

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Happy birthday! Sending Scorpio love from one to another.

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Scorpios rule! Right? (I'm a Scorpio with Scorpio rising also, so I know my friends and family appreciate that my moon is at least in Taurus.)

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Scorpio & Taurus are opposite signs, and that's a good thing! You're a double Scorpio and I am a double Taurus (Cap Rising , so triple earth for me). We are two of the most loyal signs in the zodiac. You're intense, I'm intense, it's all intense! I'm also a triple earth (Cap rising) so I guess that makes me super intense, but in a heartfelt, ride-or-die way?

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I love knowing that! I am definitely intense and beyond loyal but hold a grudge forever - I am attempting to change that last trait. Let's see! And thank you!

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OH. YEAH. The grudge!

It's a well-documented fact that we are both very good at holding grudges. It is said that Taurus has the patience of a saint, but when we're done we're like, DONE-DONE. I am also working to change that trait. It feels less good, the older I get.

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I love that!! Almost all my planets are in Scorpio, except for rising Libra. I’m so I’m “wicked” Scorpio as we’d say in New England. (Very Scorpio, for those that don’t speak New England.)

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Ha ha I did go to school in New England so I get the reference and I think I'm a wicked Scorpio in both senses.

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Happy birthday Jane! If I can stay awake for 20 more minutes I’m definitely trying that magic number wizardry in the astrology article!

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Thanks, other Jane!

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Happy Birthday, Jane!

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Thank you!!!!

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I'm 11:10 Jane! My best friend who is no longer with us was 11:11. I'd totally do it. ;)

I was/am/always will be a huuuuuge Sassy fan like everyone here, I'm sure. Had to say it though!

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Wow, that's beautiful that 11:11 has that meaning for you also. Someone I loved so much who passed away not long ago was 11:10 also. So let's just say that you and I are clearly meant to be connected. And let's plan that tattoo!

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I am so sorry to hear that, Jane. But I have felt connected to you since issue 1 of Sassy lol. I think that kind of tattoo is a great idea for a first tattoo (for you, not me, already at it for a while now), it's a very mystical number. I'll be your tattoo support gal, you just say when.

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That brings tears to my eyes and I will let you know my plan. Xox

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Happy Birthday, Jane! I'm 11:12 and this Substack is a gift to this Sassy-obsessed reader, too.

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Thank you!! I am completely thrilled that we are both here

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Happiest birthday! I have an eleven eleven tattoo! It's spelled out in script on my forearm and I got it in 2014. 11:11 has always been a beacon number and that is insane that it's your birthday because you launched my entire publishing career with the Sassy reader produced issue contest! Pure magic.

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Thank you, Tali! I've always been so proud to have had a part in your incredible career! And I would love to see how that 1111 tattoo looks. Is it the two words written out in script and all lowercase? It sounds so nice.

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Awww! Yes, you launched it all for us and made new worlds possible for these Detroit girls. Yup, the two words written out in script. I just found an old IG of the day I got it. Don't let the raw, red skin deter you, ha!

https://www.instagram.com/p/0O63ApKHem/

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It's perfect! The placement and everything. I think I'm going to do the actual numbers instead of the words but I love it both ways. My favorite awning in New York has the number 11 on one side and the word eleven written out on the other. So happy to be in touch with you, Tali!

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That’s so rad you were part of a Sassy reader-produced issue!

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Rad beyond belief! One of the hugest turning points of my life, not to mention mindblowing to be a 17 y.o. in NYC putting together an issue of your all-time favorite mag. Like what, how did I get here? Thank you!

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I know I’m late (had to withdraw from “the apps” for a few days for my mental health), but…hope you had a glorious birthday, Jane! I have a tattoo and have wanted to get a few more but keep putting them off because decision paralysis. 11:11 could actually be a good one for me, because a friend’s mom who happens to be a psychic and astrologer randomly JUST told me about the 11:11 portal and how I’m about to step through the portal (I guess?) and enter the best chapter of my life…so maybe tattooing this reminder on myself will help make it so?!? Regardless: you should get the tattoo!!!

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And now I'm sorry I was late to respond to this! We have all been withdrawing for necessary mental breaks these days, I think. I love that story about the portal for you and if you feel like tattooing it, I'm still in and haven't done it yet myself! (And I think it's amazing that you just heard about that right when I was suggesting it here. Connected!) And thanks for your encouragement to do it either way!

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I’ll let you know if I’m going to do it, so you can drop everything and run to your nearest tattoo parlor (or Charlie?)

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Happy Birthday Jane!

I don’t have any tattoos, but almost everyone I know does. As long as it’s something meaningful to you, you won’t regret it.

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That's the perfect tattoo advice!

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Here's a lil' something I wrote about 11:11 for ya! https://astrostyle.com/astrology/numerology/what-1111-means/

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I love that, thank you! I'm also excited to learn about intuitive journal, which I had never heard of before, and now I'm going to check that out. Thanks again!!

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Happy day to you. I am 50 and got my first tattoo (of two) three years ago!

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Yay!!

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Happiest Birthday, Jane!!! My daughter just turned 10 on 11:10. But she would have rather been born on 11/11 of course because we’re all so obsessed w it. I always yell to my girls, “11:11 - make a wish!” I think you should do it.

Happiest 11/11 - make a wish!

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Will do it! Love to your daughters too!

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