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I'm proud to say that I have a beloved circle of friends who are entirely undatable! Whether that is because they are married with families or that they are true weirdos who are prime candidates for the "before" version of the man in a Hallmark rom-com, yet unfixable because this is the real world, is not my call to make. LOL

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I hear you Charlie, and I appreciate you!

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You already know from my post yesterday that I do not date. Since I was a teenager, I have a real fear of them. The idea of being seated at a table - in a corner sometimes even! - with low lighting and occasionally multiple courses of food making it harder to quickly leave - makes me feel trapped and panicky. I never worried about the other person not liking me, but always fixated on the many ways that I didn't like them. That's why I am even more impressed that you are doing this dating experiment and writing about it, Vanessa. You are so open to relationship goodness that it is surely coming your way. And staying far away from mine!

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